I think the title of the blog will give you a glimpse of my blog. Its pretty straight,isn't it? I have been a "gay" for years and I was so convinced about the biological basis of homosexuality that I was very close to come out of the closet. I was so overwhelmed about homosexuality that I was so happy when Ricky Martin declared that he is a proud gay. :P I am not homophobic. I think they have an awesome lot of potential. Like creativity. But they by the so called libertarians. I used to believe in all those biological,social,empirical and religious arguments favoring homosexuality. But I always wished to get married to a woman and have kids.
There is nothing inherently wrong with homosexuality, or according to APA there is nothing wrong per se. :) It is not a choice one makes, like whether to go to Harvard instead of MIT. Experimental homosexuality doesn't count. Nobody has the right to judge someone else's sexuality. Nobody has the right to decide whether a person straight or gay. As I mentioned earlier there is nothing wrong with two members of the same-sex have a sexual union. It does no harm, as far as I see. But there are kinds of typical/common behavior associated with gay life style. Promiscuous sexual behavior is one such clear pattern among gays. HIV and other STD is skyrocketing among gay community. Substance abuse, including smoking and alcohol is high among gays. Clinical records show that body image issues, depression, OCD and anxiety is clearly frequent among gays.
homosexuals are dissatisfied with their orientation. WHO's diagnostic manual advises affirmative/conversion therapies for homosexuals. Some call it reparative or re-orientation therapy. It is unethical for a therapist force a patient to take either of the choices. Patient's wish to change his sexual orientation, therapist and it is followed by effective sessions of psychological counselling.
With the help of psychotherapy you can quit being a homosexual. You have the potential and strength. I know Its hard,But I must say that It's really worth. You will be free from the misery of judging your sexual orientation. You wouldnt have to worry whether you are attracte to men or women. Please reply. I love arguments. Wish you all the very best and courage to fight unwanted-homosexuality.
Cheers and ♥ to you all